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The year is ending and we're proud to announce that for a limited time we are reducing the price of The Book of Alpha from $9.95 to $4.95. This is one of the only products that we sell on the site to help support everything we are trying to accomplish at TBA. If you want […] Read More

To Be Alpha has been on an unexpected vacation as of late due to multiple obligations. I'm glad people continue to find value on the site. There are plenty of things to talk about in the near future including a lot of negative press on meeting women. It's very sad to see how some men […] Read More

Add To Be Alpha on TWITTER

I think we're going to start using Twitter a little more often to give quick alpha tips. Why? Because I don't think it makes sense to write a one sentence tip as a new article. Do yourself a favor and add us on Twitter - @tobealpha_male This means don’t drop off on your sentences like […] Read More

A little excerpt that I recently saw. You can substitute "Professional athletes" for pretty much any type of person that people look up to. The saying is for almost everything in life. Once you read it, you will realize why so many people in this world are average. Professional athletes are our culture's holy men: […] Read More

The Life of an Alpha Female


If you didn't know, now you know. Females can and are be alpha. Even more alpha than males. My friend, who in many eyes, is alpha and ultra competitive yet feminine helped put this together (Ivy League Educated, College Athlete, Successful Investment Banker, Corporate Citizen). Whether you're an alpha female or an aspiring alpha female […] Read More

Here are some alpha tips for you single guys looking to find love or something in between. Lessons from the trenches - things you shouldn't do even if you think you should. DON'T: Try to talk to a girl that's walking by saying and "hey baby"/ "hey sexy" or anything stupid like that. If you're going […] Read More